Wedding Checklist  

 

Six to Twelve Months Before 

leaf Work out a realistic budget, discuss who pays and who makes decisions 

leaf Choose the date and time of your wedding 

leaf Book an appointment with the herb farm to come and view the venue and find out everything we can do for  

   your special day 

leaf Compile a draft guest list (don’t forget both sides of the families) 

leaf Compile a guest list for your engagement party 

leaf Announce your engagement party to family and friends 

leaf Book in the engagement party venue (enquire with us – we can do almost anything!) and send out invitations to  

   the engagement party 

leaf Decide on your wedding theme and colour scheme – Bliss Event Styling can help with this. 

leaf Book your wedding and reception venue (the herb farm) and pay the deposit 

leaf Choose and order your wedding dress and veil 

leaf Buy wedding shoes
leaf Buy undergarments for wedding attire (need prior to fittings) 

leaf Find and book the musicians/DJ/band 

leaf Find a florist who understands your vision for the day and book them 

leaf Book the wedding transport (car, helicopter, hot air balloon…) 

leaf Book the photographer/videographer (we recommend Adam Cowan Photography) 

leaf Meet the celebrant and book them 

 

Three to Six Months Before 

leaf Start thinking about your honeymoon and make reservations, including booking a hotel for your wedding night 

leaf Choose and order your wedding cake 

leaf Go bridesmaid’s dress shopping 

leaf Choose and order the groomsmen’s attire 

leaf Purchase accessories for the entire bridal party 

leaf Choose and purchase wedding rings 

leaf Come in for a relaxing facial and massage at the herb farm beauty retreat 

leaf Finalise guest list 

leaf Inform out of town guests of your wedding date 

leaf Book in with your hairdresser for a consultation and trial run 

leaf Book in to our beauty retreat for a make-up consultation and trial-run, as well as for the wedding day 

leaf Choose the design of wedding invitations and stationery and order 

leaf Organise decorations for ceremony and reception (keep in mind what items are not covered by the venue) 

leaf Ask for the time off work required for your wedding and honeymoon! 

leaf Choose a gift registry (if you’re using one) 

leaf Discuss details of ceremony with celebrant (eg songs, readings etc) 

leaf Arrange fittings for grooms and groomsmen 

leaf Send invites and list acceptances and refusals as they return 

leaf Choose wedding favours for the guests and order. Check out the special range of gifts we offer for a special  

   personalised touch 

 

Two Months Before 

leaf Give florist details of colour scheme and agree on flowers 

leaf Finalise menu and drinks with caterers and give expected numbers 

leaf Check passports, certificates and legal documents are in order 

leaf Ask your special guests who will be involved in the ceremony (eg songs, readings etc) 

leaf Notify anyone required to make a speech 

leaf Choose an MC 

leaf Organise and book accommodation for out of town guests (if needed) 

leaf Start a list of all wedding gifts received 

leaf Purchase gifts for the bridal party, the herb farm has a great range of gifts available 

leaf Purchase bridal shoes and accessories 

leaf Come in to the herb farm beauty retreat for a hand and foot treatment combined with a relaxing neck and  

   shoulder massage to relax your cares away 

leaf Finalise your music for the day 

leaf Arrange where your attendants will stand on the day 

leaf Write your ceremony program 

leaf Start writing your vows (if you are writing your own) 

leaf Shop for lingerie and honeymoon clothes 

 

One Month Before 

leaf Apply for the marriage license 

leaf Confirm honeymoon reservations and pick up tickets 

leaf Book fittings for yourself and your attendants. Wear in your wedding shoes and wear them for the final fitting 

leaf Chase up late invitation replies and finalise guest list. Write place cards for the reception 

leaf Work out seating plan for reception. Check that place cards and table settings are in order. 

leaf Go to the hairdresser with your hair accessories and confirm appointment for the day 

leaf Come in to the herb farm beauty retreat for a make-up trial run and order your perfect colour lipstick for the big  

   day 

leaf Meet with your celebrant and check formalities are in order. Set wedding rehearsal date 

leaf Check transport arrangements and time the journey 

leaf Give final numbers to your caterer 

leaf Confirm all arrangements with florist, caterer, transport, photographer etc 

leaf Arrange hen’s night and/or kitchen tea with your bridesmaids (we do hen’s nights too!) 

leaf Finalise vows and order of ceremony 

leaf Come in for that all important and necessary pampering at the herb farm beauty retreat – only one week to go!! 

leaf Try on bridal gown with all accessories, just to make sure 

 

One Week Before 

leaf Have the wedding rehearsal 

leaf Make sure those giving speeches have remembered 

leaf Make sure best man has rings and service sheets. Give money in marked envelopes to best man to give to  

   celebrant, musicians etc. 

leaf Check that suits and any hire items are collected 

leaf Pack for your honeymoon and arrange for suitcases to be taken to reception venue or hotel 

leaf Check final details for reception 

leaf Practice your vows and prepare your speech (if you’re giving one) 

leaf Arrange for best man to collect and return hired suits 

leaf Arrange for an appropriate person to take home the bridal gown and accessories, take the gifts safely home  

   and to ensure all hire items get returned 

leaf Take time out for yourself – the herb farm has plenty to offer – perhaps a delicious lunch with just your  

   bridesmaids or your mum, accompanied by a glass or two of wine and one last pre-wedding indulgence at the   

   beauty retreat 

 

Wedding Day
leaf Relax and enjoy your special day. Your wedding day goes very fast so make sure you pause and enjoy the  

   moment and grab a few special minutes alone with your new husband/wife. 

 

After the Wedding 

leaf Why not come back and visit the fabulous location you enjoyed your special day at and toast to the good times  

   on your anniversary at the herb farm. 

 


“Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are
expecting to give - which is everything” ~ Katherine Hepburn